Having a safety net is an underrated blessing.Imagine switching careers without worrying about bills or wasted time.Developing various talents,taking that business risk,moving to a new town for the vibes.That's a luxury I'd like to afford my kids one day.
in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.
Adult bullies are almost never confrontational. They’re strategic and hide behind their social group to be able to manipulate how people perceive you- in a quiet way so you won’t even see it coming.
Very calculated. Very nasty spirited.