The boy toy was all up in his feels about not "really" being kinky
So I threw him to the floor, stripped him, beat him with his own belt, fucked him with a plug and the hitachi and he came while eating my ass. In the shower I had him piss on my leg and lick it clean
Plenty kinky
For real though.....
Also the number of swers I know who got into the business because it was the best way to fund the dream of getting to dote on a horse at home is not zero.
The same thing all horse owners do: give them all my money and desperately try to keep them from doing something dumb that requires a 3am emergency vet call.
Just got a chance to see the workshop @JoEllenNotte did for @weknowship on Sex, Love, and Depression and it had so much great information on issues near to my heart...and other bits as well. I'm ordering the book now because this is absolutely info I want on my shelf.
The old you buzzes around your skull like a bee in the kitchen window. Donโt swat it. Be kind. We must hope that our current selves will one day step aside to make room for better versions of us. Shuttle the old you outside in a mason jar. Let it climb onto the lilac in the sun.
@LyddPlant@DisabledEliza When I was repeatedly hospitalized a psychiatrist straight up told my husband that he should leave me. Luckily he thought that was bullshit. He hadn't vowed "till things got difficult".
We did amicably separate years later but it was not due to my disability.
@TraderCombat@Denicio With this argument the system that compells any labor for survial is abusive. Under such a system all we can do is value and maximize the choices of labor one can choose.
And once again, it is *you* calling us objects and viewing us and our choice of work as lacking in agency.
@TraderCombat@Janeelessthan3 And why is it that while we fight for female workplace power in other fields to be developed, you would have us give up the one field where we do have it? Why should those of us who will always be barred from traditional workplace power chose to suffer rather than thrive?
@TraderCombat@Janeelessthan3 I think you just betrayed your own bias pretty strongly. We become "objects" of desire when we lose agency of our sexuality. With agency our sexuality, sensuality, and intimacy is provided as a service. That agency is what threatens the patriarchy, not what upholfs it
@BondageLand Include generous portions of onions
Put your shreds in a cheese cloth or strainer and squueze out as much water as you can. No, more. Keep squeezing....MoRE SQUEEZE! Dehydrate those dang potaters!
Use a splash screen when frying. And wear clothes
^ pro tip
@BondageLand Well first thing is to know whether you like your latkes thick and juicy or thin and crunchy....
I can't give a recipe because I've never actually seen one being used in our house but tips:
Use a cuisinart (if you have one) to shred the taters. Aim for matchstick size