women will never admit what the fuck they did to you. but they’ll run around telling everyone how crazy and fucked up you acted after they destroyed you.
we all got trauma. but at some point you gotta stop using yours as permission to bleed on people who never cut you. some of y’all ain’t “hurt” you just got a nasty ass spirit.
unpopular opinion: your spouse should come before your parents once you build a family together. that doesn’t mean stop loving your parents, it means they’re no longer involved in every decision.
I don’t think checking your partner’s phone is the problem after they’ve already broken your trust. the bigger question is why tf y’all still together if you gotta investigate each other. 👀
to my future spouse: come having faced your shit. 🤍 i don’t need perfect, but i refuse to make you pay for wounds you didn’t create & i need that same grace in return.
a man having money doesn’t make him a provider. some men will pay every bill in that house & still leave that woman carrying EVERYTHING money can’t touch.