I once dated this Algerian French woman and I wanted to make it work so badly even though she was awful because my eyes were on the bigger picture on what our football playing child could be
You dispossess someone by your corner flag. You launch a counter attack and go all the way to the other side of the pitch and score. You celebrate. Only for them to call the foul that the referee missed all the way back by your corner flag. Fair call, but that’s the blessing and the curse of VAR. Good for the officiating of the game (sometimes) but detrimental to the spirit of it.