One day we’ll unpack how men view sex as something degrading that happens to a woman, and not something consensual that happens with a woman, and that’s why they view women who have sex as “less than”, Even though all humans have been having sex since the beginning of time😭
yeah breakups hurt, but have you ever been a super talkative, enthusiastic person but slowly over the years and after trauma you watch yourself become more quieter and quieter to the point where that enthusiastic bubbly person just isn't who you are anymore?
My therapist always starts our session with “How are you?” and I always say “I’m good!” and then spend the next hour talking about how I am decidedly Not Good.