Itโs been forever since the last time I shared something, so Iโm hoping you guys can show some support. ๐ฅน๐ค
By the way, can any of you relate to this?
https://t.co/eI7nu2QHqz
Strange, isnโt it? you know yourself better than anyone else, yet you crumble at the words of someone who hasnโt lived a second of your life. The world is full of people who think they know you. Listen to your own voice first.
nobody talks about the stage of grief where you can't even talk about it to anyone anymore because everyone expects you to be getting over it but it still runs through your mind everyday.
as u get older, u realize that youโre not always right & thereโs so many things u couldโve handled differently, so many situations where u couldโve been nicer and all u can really do is forgive yourself & let ur mistakes make u a better person.
Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. They will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it's easier to paint you as the villain.
Your identity is just a collection of habits. Habits of thought. Habits of emotion. Habits of action. None of them are permanent. None of them are you. They are just patterns you've repeated. And patterns can be broken. Identity can be rebuilt.
my mom once told me โaccountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms othersโ and that shit is real.
Theyโre destroying the books.
Theyโre destroying the museums.
Theyโre prosecuting the scientists.
Theyโre cutting down the forests.
Theyโre destroying the planet.