I remember one youth camp I attended high off of prime wattpad.
The teacher, a lovely woman was talking about how to avoid boys that want to use us for our bodies. I asked her what to do about my own urges and she got so flustered and said girls shouldn't be having urges.
In all of this saga;
The church & society needs to decenter marriage on young women. When every youth program in church, advice from parents esp for young women is about husband, virginity etc, this is what you get. Women who think husband is the next best thing after Jesus.
When you stop reading books, you start losing verbal dexterity, depth of thought and imagination. A closed book is a closed mind. Don't EVER stop reading.