Ward manager Cardiac HDU and Essex PPCI. #teamrodingCTC. Married to Alan, my partner in all our adventures including supporting both parents through cancer
A final piece of advice from Holly Butcher - written the day before she passed away from cancer at just 27:
“It’s a strange thing knowing you’re going to die young.
At 26, I thought I had time…
To fall in love.
Start a family.
Grow old.
But cancer doesn’t care about plans.
Now, I understand how fragile life really is. Every single day is a gift, not a guarantee.
I’m not writing this to scare you. I’m writing to remind you: really live.
Stop stressing over little things. Be kind to your body- move it, nourish it, stop criticizing it. One day you’ll wish you had appreciated it.
Go outside.
Look at the sky.
Feel the sun.
Just be.
Spend less time chasing “stuff” - more time making memories. Don’t skip moments with people you love.
Laugh more.
Write a note.
Tell someone you love them.
Complain less.
Give more.
Helping others brings more joy than anything you can buy.
Be present.
Put your phone down.
Show up - really show up.
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need a perfect body, or a perfect life.
Just follow what makes your heart light up. Say no to what drains you. Make changes when you need to.
And please - donate blood. I wouldn’t have had that extra year without it. And that year gave me memories I’ll hold close… forever.
Thank you for reading this.
Live your life well.
And maybe… we’ll meet again someday.”
Holly 🩷
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@NiallHarbison Niall Everything you said is so true. Lost my gorgeous boy 19 years ago and I have questioned my decision to put him to sleep. Beaten myself up if I did the right thing. In my head I know I did and yes both me and hubby where there right to the end.
@NiallHarbison Niall complete respect to you and the team for everything you do. Big T received care, love, dignity, a chance and when the time came he left with a belly full of chicken and steak. RIP big paws
@NiallHarbison Beautiful Kerry. A golden ticket at happy Doggo where you were cared for, loved and didn’t have to struggle. Travel safe with a tummy full of chicken and a heart full of the care shown to you. Happy Doggo team thank you and respect for a you so
⛏️ The Reality Of Elephant ‘Tourism’ ⛏️
Stabbed with a concealed nail, a tug on the fish hook digging into the Elephant’s sensitive ear.
THIS is how Elephants are forced to perform at #FestivalsOfElephantAbuse! 😡
Tourists, #DontBuyATicket!
🎦 Credit: Pics Fort.
Please don't touch, don’t bathe and don’t ride Elephants.
Elephants, which are used for riding activities, circus performances, religious ceremonies or for swimming and taking photos with tourists, usually go through a cruel process of submission.
Already at an early age, they are separated from their mothers, bound and abused until their resistance is broken.
BUT TOURISTS HAVE A CHOICE!
#DontBuyATicket 🎟️! 🚫
📷 Credit: @ElephantsFuture. 🐘
This riding harness has been on her for 20 years. The mahout was asked to take it off, so the rescuer see that moment. She will never know another chain!
She's on her way to Boon
Lott's Elephant Sanctuary where they will take good care of her.
Tourists #DontBuyATicket 🎟️!
This is such a massive step forward. Well done to everyone. Hoping this will be something offered to avoid either very painful procedures or having only GA as an option