Muscles only grow when you rest, after having stressed them during exercise.
Wisdom is the same. You can only grow wise once you cringe, having stressed your mind by being retarded.
Everywhere you go on the internet now there are autoplaying short-form videos that are designed to make you dumber, more shallow, and less able to focus on the things that would really provide your life value. This is the number one form of psychological warfare we are dealing with. Everything else is secondary.
The obsession with wanting people to regret losing you is insane. You’re not that special. People lose people every day and keep living. Heal from the ego that needs to be missed, chased, or mourned to feel valuable. Your job is not to become somebody’s punishment. Your job is to grow, move on, and build a life so full that their regret is no longer your concern.
The biggest cheat code is pretending that every person you meet has a sign around their neck that says, "Make me feel important". Everyone's spotlight is fixed on themselves. Make it about them and you'll get farther in life than making it about you.
always thought harry potter series was unrealistically pessimistic about how few characters would care to learn more how the magic actually works & then u watch people interact with llms