I cut her off after I found out she kept screenshots of our private conversations… not to protect herself, but to laugh about them with her friends. Every insecurity I trusted her with became entertainment in another group chat.
That’s when I learned some women don’t leave when they stop loving you. They stay long enough to study your weak spots first.
If you stop liking someone, telling them is better than letting them write epistles expressing their feelings and emotions every time, you are an adult, don’t let them beg to be seen or loved, it’s a wicked thing to do to anyone.
If you’ve lost interest in someone, be honest about it. Dragging things out with dry replies, ignored calls, and sudden distance only hurts more than a simple truth ever will.
When someone knows ur facing one of the hardest times of your life and still chooses to disrespect you or add to your stress, something darker is at play.. Cruelty in moments of deep vulnerabilitv is intentional. And when a person can hurt yu knowing how fragile yu are,that kind of betrayal changes how yu see them forever.
u can tell who is evil very easily by watching who sees someone else in a low place & takes it as a sign to attack them further & getting damn near giddy over it. hurting people while they’re already visibly hurting… ya ur demonic #bye
But what exactly is friendship to some of you?
Is it something you only value while it benefits you? Does everything you once shared like the memories, the laughter suddenly expire the moment the friendship ends?
Because it’s honestly scary how quickly some of you get messy once the friendship ends. Like all the history just disappears and turns into ammunition?
You should always speak to your partner to check where the relationship is, the health of the relationship and the future of the relationship.
Ask the important questions.
"Are you happy?"
"Is there something I'm not doing right?"
"Am I loving you the right way?"
"How do we grow together?"
"What can we do together to strengthen our bond?"
"Do I make you feel loved and appreciated?"
"Do you like the way we settle conflicts?"
"How do you see our future together?"
"How do I support you better?"
The sooner you learn this, the better:
Do not rush to defend yourself when someone lies about you.
Watch who believes it without hesitation
Watch who spreads it with excitement
Watch who suddenly behaves differently around you.
That is how you identify your weak links
Immediately cut them off,
And from today, stop explaining yourself to people who were waiting for a reason to doubt you.