The other day i mentioned something about when i was pregnant and the response i got was “you have a baby” and when i told her yeah he’s 2 actually her response was “what!? You don’t even look like u have a kid.. it doesn’t even seem like u have a kid”
i disagree with the concept of “brutal honesty.” be honest, direct, and to the point with me, but not cruel. if you feel like you have to cause harm to get your point across, check your motives.