One thing I came to peace with is that I DONT HAVE TO. I don't have to go out of my way. I don't have to be the bigger person. I don't have to fix anything I didn't break. I don't have to reach out to those who don't reach out to me. I don't have to try to make everyone happy.
Yolanda Adams know she snapped when she said “so I need to talk to you, & ask you for your guidance. especially today, when my life is so cloudy. Lord, guide me until I’m sure … I open up my heart to you” wheeeew🥹
I spent years overgiving in friendships & relationships. I was always the one checking in, showing love, making sure everybody was good & I forgot about me. Now I just want to be alone and focus on myself. I’m learning to pour into me the way I used to pour into everybody else.
To all my girls chasing a new chapter, be gentle with yourself. What’s meant for you will always find you, so trust the process and give yourself grace. You’ve got this! 💕