Lyricnotic 🌈

Queer AF. Hedonist. Do not set foot in my ocean unless you are ready to swim. @yourpleasureadv @QueerKinksters

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@shhaarrkkk @Basetsana_Pule There are people who were into emo and goth stuff that turned out to be fully functional adults. Emo/goth doesn’t automatically mean the child is not ok or the parents are doing a bad job.

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@DiegoRackz @chir_bytheway @Toluwase_x Even if it is done with the best intention, the other person has to be comfortable with it and they have to consent.

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@Mr_Shuku @guluvabynature And by choosing what kind of person they want to be

A boss I had was a rogue child from a good family. He was resentful that other parents wouldn’t let him socialise with their kids. That resentment motivated him to work hard. His “revenge” was to become an even better man.

[Tanya Junghans @tanyajunghans]

Sue Nyathi did her research!

Psychologist and criminologist have found that a man can start beating his woman up later in life. It is not always immediate. Even he may think he could not do it until he does.

The behaviour abusers and killers of women have is:
Coersive control.

Men who have killed or beaten their partners started with this.

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

If more jobs were available and people earned enough, and if we prioritised community and mutual care amongst each other and didn’t only promote nuclear families and romantic relationships, our parents leaving unhappy marriages and aging single would not be the issue.

[Stache Autonomy @StacheAutonomy]

This was my parents - married 35 years, 3 grown kids, got a divorce. Now they'll both die alone and destitute unless I take care of both them (neither of my siblings will be willing or able to), and I know this is selfish of me, but I really wish they'd have just stuck it out!

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

I enjoy people who still make flings or casual relationships memorable. I will romance the panties off a person I may never see again too. We don't have to be in serious relationships to make our experiences with each other beautiful, special and meaningful.

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

Management has just approved our menstrual paid leave request and upgraded our maternity leave policy 😍 Our blind spots in gender department isn't only servicing clients but working for staff too, out here practising what we're preaching 🥺

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

Instead of jumping into the next commitment prematurely, we're brave enough to say, today I do miss being partnered up. I feel like doing xyz. Would you be keen?

I love this level of honesty and openness. Can we leave our egos and pride at the door, please😩

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

That tweet about dating people that can give you the experience you are looking for, and not just dating people because they are good people, is living in my head rent free and may it feel at home forever ❤️

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@Tumi_Roch My mom, 120km from Witbank to Joburg. For more than 20 years and still counting 😭

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@_Tainment You don’t get seduced into being a liar and a serial cheater. You choose.

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@DameZibi I thought I was weird, two places I don’t enjoy going to or even driving though. Fourways takes the cup though lol

[Gauteng Health @GautengHealth]

You’ve seen #ThePolygamist and saw how Jonasi went out… just know, that is not just TV drama, it is real life consequences.

Multiple partners without protection increase your risk of STIs and HIV. Ignoring treatment does not make it go away, it makes it worse.

Knowing your status is power. Using protection is responsibility. Taking your treatment is survival.

If you stopped treatment, come back, reinitiate and stay on it to achieve an undetectable viral load. This means living a healthier life with zero risk of passing HIV on to others.

Remember, prevention options such as PrEP and Lenacapavir can help protect against HIV, but condoms are still essential to protect against STIs like gonorrhoea, syphilis, herpes, chlamydia and more, as well as unwanted pregnancies.

Credit: Clip from The Polygamist on @NetflixSA

#AsibeHealthyGP #EndAIDS #STIAwareness

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

I am so glad #thepolygamist spends so much time highlighting how kids are affected by their parents’ decisions, whether they were the perpetrator or the victim

No romantic heartbreak compares to how our parents break our hearts

I hoped our generation would make better choices

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@Teezy2020 @__amahledlamini @hlovo_ @theonlysentle In my experience and the common ones I’ve seen, it was one day a month paid leave over and above sick leave and annual leave. You don’t need to produce a doctor’s note.

But different companies have different allocations

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@OnePablo20 @EmmiieTLO I’ve shared the names of the employers I know with women in my DMs many times, I spoke about this so many years ago

A simple Google search will give you more names than I know + research, maybe it’s your turn to help someone 🥰

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@OnePablo20 @EmmiieTLO There are many companies already doing this for more than 10 years and tonnes of research and information available

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

We have menstrual leave and mental health days. Company is doing just fine.

We also have a parental leave policy that doesn’t discriminate against gender, orientation and whether you adopted or not.

If your talent is important to you, you’ll experiment til you get it right.

[Hlovo @hlovo_]

Companies would just stop employing women altogether

[Lyricnotic 🌈 @Lyricnotic]

@__amahledlamini @hlovo_ @theonlysentle Same!