Litigating "when" your partner is "allowed" to safeword is fucked. You haven't done something wrong just because someone safeworded. But if you can't react calmly and kindly to safewording in any situation you aren't safe to play with.
@TalksMarsh I'm so confused why so many people are trying to argue with you on this. If someone has a meltdown because their partner like expressed an extremely basic boundary that is 1000% on the person melting down over it and it's to be blunt rapey as fuck to pretend otherwise.
@leichendame Someday you will realize you are the biggest obstacle to your own happiness, stop being retarded online and go to the grocery store or something