Respect is genuine from someone who respects themselves first. A person without Self-respect is cunning regardless. You said respecting women is sexy and attractive, therefore that's what women want and are willing to reward. If an 'ugly' dude shows respect it will go unnoticed but the 'ugly' dude will retain his Self-respect if he acted genuinely without expectations of reward.
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