you never see women walking along hocking up phlegm and spitting on the pavement, we don't even do it privately in the toilet, what is wrong with men? is it a medical condition that only affects males? or do they consider it some sort of misguided display of masculinity?
Drop marriage from your life equation, and suddenly those tiny worries about career, buying a home by 30, or grabbing a car vanish like magic. You suddenly get all the time in the universe to do whatever floats your boat. Honestly, it is just marriage that traps us into rushing to check all these boxes way too early. We have simply been trained by society to think we need all these shiny trophies just to unlock the wedding level.