You Don’t Get Over Multiple Sclerosis https://t.co/htxYwJP7t4
Have you ever mentioned a new multiple sclerosis symptom and been told to “get over it”? I’ve always found that response strange. Get over what, exactly? The pain? The fear? A chronic illness that doesn’t leave? What am I supposed to get over?
You don’t just get over something you live with every day, every hour. It’s easy for someone outside your body to say “get over it” when they aren’t the ones dealing with the symptoms, but a person doesn’t get over multiple sclerosis. They live with it.
I have no control over how my body will feel from one day to the next—or even from one hour to the next. One day I may feel relatively okay. The next day it can feel like I’ve been hit by two Mack trucks. I can’t decide how my body will behave, so how am I supposed to simply “get over it”?
People often respond differently to temporary problems than to ongoing ones. If I had a broken arm, most people would offer to open doors or carry things for me. A broken arm is visible and temporary. Once the cast comes off, the need disappears and life returns to normal. A chronic illness doesn’t work that way. It doesn’t go away no matter how much anyone wishes it would. That’s why expecting someone in the middle of pain, weakness, or another MS symptom to just “get over it” doesn’t make sense. It isn’t a decision... READ MORE
My legs aren't working today. I fell getting out of bed, in the shower and in the kitchen... and the morning isn't even over yet. I think today needs a do-over!!!
I’m strong enough to not cry in front of most people, and because of that, they think I have no problems. I’m strong enough to say “I’m fine” when people ask “are you okay?” because it’s easier than trying to explain my pain. It’s a fact that 1 out of 10 people really care about my struggles…9 out of 10 would just walk away or give dumb advice. Regardless of the odds, I’m strong enough to believe everything will be okay even when everything is so messed up. I have to keep reminding myself I’m strong enough…I’m strong enough...and so are you!!!