As a survivor of DV the speculating about Travis Kelce isn’t sitting well with me. My abuser looks like a harmless nerd and would never get physical with a male superior. So many perpetrators of IPV never show their propensity for violence except behind closed doors with a physically smaller and often financially dependent partner. It feels like a perpetuation of “she should have known” and “just don’t marry a bad guy.” Everyone wants to believe it’s so obvious.
He footballed on the sideline after footballing a few feet away was cheered for by millions.
I be feeling a little bad bout being on bad terms with people I really love, I be wanting to reach out & fix things but I just can’t do it anymore. People are constantly showing their true colors & I gotta respect it and accept it !
Manipulation is when they repeatedly trigger your mental health and nervous system, then focus on your reaction when you address their toxic behaviour, instead of their disrespect.
As you mature, you’ll realize you can’t make anyone see what they’re not willing to see. We create our own perceptions, which is why the “truth” is so difficult for people to agree on.