Aku terbaca satu kisah semalam, tentang seorang lelaki yang meninggal dalam kereta sendiri…gara-gara bergaduh kecil dengan isteri.
Malam tu, brader ni kata jiran dia nampak kereta masih hidup enjinnya.
Dalamnya ada lelaki tu, tertidur di tempat duduk pemandu.
Katanya dia cuma nak rehat sekejap.
"Siang kerja pejabat, malam buat Grab. Penat sangat."
Dia senyum lesu.
Dan itu rupanya senyuman terakhir dia.
Keesokan pagi, jiran tu dapat tahu lelaki tu meninggal dunia akibat keracunan gas ekzos.
Dia tertidur dengan enjin hidup.
Yang paling menyayat hati, isterinya meraung depan rumah, menyesal tak sudah.
Rupanya malam sebelumnya mereka bergaduh.
Isteri merajuk, tak buka pintu, tak jawab mesej.
Suami pula tak nak panjangkan hal, jadi dia duduk dalam kereta depan rumah, mungkin tunggu reda, mungkin nak tenangkan diri.
-Aliff Liv
Tapi dia tak sempat.
Dia pergi begitu saja… dalam sunyi, beberapa meter dari orang yang dia sayang.
Bila aku baca cerita ni, aku terus terdiam.
Sebab aku tahu, ramai lelaki hidup macam tu hari-hari.
Bukan sebab lemah, tapi sebab tak tahu macam mana nak luah.
Bila hidup dah terlalu berat, lelaki akan cari tenang di tempat sunyi, dalam kereta, di mamak, atau dengan kerja lebih masa.
Bukan lari.
Cuma nak bernafas sekejap.
Gambar no.2 tu....
"Kalau cari nafkah pun penat, tak payah jadi suami la."
Ayat tu nampak kecil. Tapi bagi aku, itulah cara fikir yang perlahan-lahan bunuh banyak hati lelaki zaman sekarang.
Lelaki boleh tahan lapar.
Tapi dia tak tahan bila penatnya dipandang remeh.
Ramai isteri tak sedar, bila suami makin diam, bukan cinta yang hilang dulu.
Yang hilang ialah rasa dihargai.
Dan bila rasa tu hilang, hubungan mula retak perlahan-lahan.
Aku bukan nak bela para suami.
Aku cuma nak cakap satu benda, suami pun manusia.
Kalau dia penat, jangan hina.
Kalau dia senyap, jangan biar.
Kadang dia cuma tunggu seseorang faham…
yang dia bukan tak kuat, dia cuma dah terlalu penat nak terus pura-pura kuat.
Let me educate you feminist retards so you won't do this kind of shit to your husband. It's fking hard to get 3-5k salary.
That man devoted his whole life slaving away to provide for you but u decided to be an entitled bitch just because you're a selfish narc.
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I condemn in the strongest terms Israel’s interception of the Global Sumud Flotilla. These vessels carried unarmed civilians and life-saving humanitarian supplies for Gaza, yet they were met with intimidation and coercion.
By blocking a humanitarian mission, Israel has shown utter contempt not only for the rights of the Palestinian people but also for the conscience of the world. The flotilla embodied solidarity, compassion and the hope of relief for those under blockade.
Malaysia will use all legitimate and lawful means at our disposal to ensure that Israel is held to account, especially in matters concerning Malaysian citizens. The safety and dignity of our people are paramount, and we will not allow them to be compromised with impunity.
As long as the Palestinian people are denied their fundamental rights and aspirations, Malaysia will stand unflinchingly with them. We will not relent in demanding an end to the injustice and dispossession that have plagued Palestine for generations.
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