As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for shit, it makes me uncomfortable. That's why I like men who just DO. Don't ask just figure out what i need/ want & DO IT.
Stop being so considerate in situations where you are not considered. Kindness is a gift, not an obligation. You'll be drained if you keep pouring into people who don't reciprocate. Protect your spirit and well-being. Redirect your warmth toward those who reflect it back to you.
Idk I just think when you love yourself so much, you won’t hesitate to get what you desire and want in this world. That’s why self-concept is so important! How you speak to yourself, express love, and practice self devotion is what sets you apart from the masses. So how can you
The same parents who travel long distances to help/ grieve/ celebrate their friends?
The ones greeting almost everyone from church to the market? They model alot about community and friendship. Alot of us think we're too good for mundane things.
Let's be serious please.
Adulting advice? Use your long weekend to go out and treat yourself. Learn how to make yourself enough for you without needing someone by your side. Make yourself your one & only partner that no matter what will always be there for you. Live your life and take a lot of pictures.
One thing I’ve learned is when your spirit tells you to fall back from certain people, listen. Every time I ignored that feeling, I ended up seeing exactly why it was there in the first place. Sometimes nothing major even happens.