There are too many introductions. There are too many prefaces. We need a complete moratorium on introductions and prefaces until we can figure out what's going on.
you can have an insane impact if you act to help people freely without concern for what it gets you personally. the highest magnitude returns i’ve found have been believing in other people but the returns accrue to them and the community you live in. you benefit, but ambiently.
Nothing should trigger you. Receive every insult, criticism, reflection with grace. Love yourself enough to recognize what is true, and then integrate the truth, and let any falsehood fall away as projection. You are whole and nothing can remove you from wholeness. But you have a responsibility to yourself, to your loved ones, and to the world to rise. When I tweet with daggers it is because I love you and want to see you rise.
HORRIBLE: the way you acted around someone has permanently added a vector of possibility to how they understand you as a person, permanently changing their view of you away from a pure, untainted state
I’m 43 now. I’ve worked 50-70 hours a week my entire adult life. I’ve lost years of time with my children and loved ones just so we could afford to live. This life is not only cruel, but unnecessarily cruel. A better world is possible.
This is partly why I believe healthy people don’t really like being around unhealthy people, but unhealthy people realllllyyyy wanna be around healthy ones
The healthy people are naturally calming and settling to other people’s nervous systems while unhealthy people are the opposite. They will unsettle and disturb. They will unconsciously try to take from you. I don’t think that’s a bad thing, sometimes I like being unsettled and disturbed, but most of the time I don’t
A person has to be incredibly boundaried to be around unhealthy people without being affected by them. If u try to get involved w unhealthy people before ur ready you’ll get eaten alive. They won’t “intend” to do it but they will do it. It’s self-protective to be discerning