i told my therapist quietly,
“i’m not suicidal… but i’m scared of how empty i’ve been feeling lately.”
and she didn’t panic.
she didn’t tell me to “cheer up.”
she didn’t minimize it.
she just took a breath and said,
“that kind of emptiness usually means you’ve been carrying more than a person should have to carry alone.”
and in that moment… something in me finally loosened, like i wasn’t fighting the weight by myself anymore
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
El bienestar de mi pareja no es negociable. Si alguien la incomoda y le remueve algo que no merece sentir, a mí no me tiembla la mano para borrar o bloquear. ¿Por qué pondría a otra por encima de la persona que amo?
Marry a man who makes you feel safe. Safe to express. Safe to be yourself. Safe to speak. Safe to address an issue. Safe to depend upon him. Safe to hold his hand when you're anxious. Safe to be vulnerable with him. A man who Allows you to be feminine bcz he's masculine enough.
Yk what's attractive?? A secure man with no sneaky stuff, no extra females, no inconsistency, no drama, A man who is expressive about his feelings for you, gentle with you, makes you feel safe, a man who still has same level of respect and love during bad terms !! Top tier.
I want romance. I want intimacy. I want the 3am love making. I want consistency. I want loyalty. I want the random looks of admiration. I want to know you're just for me. I want date nights and flowers. I want reassurance. I want priority. I want love that's pure and true.
get you a partner that doesn't mind hurting people's feelings when it comes to you. imma say it again. GET YOU A PARTNER THAT DOESN'T MIND HURTING PEOPLE'S FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO YOU.
Les juro que el hombre que de verdad las ama se convierte en el ser más servicial, atento, detallista, amoroso y respetuoso del mundo. Si le comentas un problema, va a hacer todo lo posible por solucionarlo, te hace la vida más fácil, más feliz. Si no cambia, es porque no quiere.
Qué feo es tener empleo y que no haya tiempo/energía mental para trabajar tu arte.
Qué feo es estar desempleada pues te deprime y no te dan ganas de trabajar en tu arte.
Tan lindo que es estar enamorado, y amarse, y besarse, tener sábado domingo de novios, y pasear, y cocinar juntos, hacer planes a futuro, que lo lleven a uno como un chicle para todos lados, yyyyyy que lindo es amar con tanta intensidad