Underrated life advice: A good life is built by simply doing uncomfortable things sooner. The delayed conversation gets harder. The ignored problem gets bigger. The small repair gets more expensive. Peace is never found through avoidance. It’s found through direct early action.
The information will protect itself. Until you are in ALIGNMENT with the "secrets" of existence, it will hide itself in plain sight. There is no escaping self-work.
“I evaluate my behavior every night.
I'll be in the shower thinking, I didn't like how I responded to that today, but tomorrow I will be better.
I replay moments, notice my impatience, my words, my tone, my reactions, and I quietly promise myself growth.
It's not about perfection, it's about showing up a little wiser, a little softer, a little more aware the next day.
Change isn't sudden, it's built in these tiny, honest moments with yourself.”
Metaphysically speaking, we aren’t expected by the universe to do anything besides exist. We have pressures & expectations of society ingrained in our brains and deep into our consciousness, however, it truly doesn’t matter if you just exist and do not “accomplish” worldly goals.
My goal is to be so aligned with myself that no one or anything has any power over me, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or physically. I own all of me. At all times.
Life lately has been a mix of blessings, lessons, and a little bit of 'what is even happening?' But I'm still showing up, still grateful, and still trusting that everything is falling into place even if it doesn't look like it yet.
True protest is about seeking justice, not causing harm. Damaging property or stealing from others only deepens the pain. Let us choose compassion, protect each other, and stand together in peace and respect. #lootingisnotprotest
It’s so incredible to me how there is always more to learn. A series of unlearning, learning, and practice. Even when you know a lot about a topic there are more levels to explore. Experience and assimilation being the greatest teachers.
I am forever a student of life.
Random Thought… participated in my first protest because it was about making Kenya a better place.
I have never participated in any demos before because I always felt they were partisan, political and full of vandalism and looting. It’s not even clear how the decisions to protest were made. I imagine a few men sat in a room and picked a day for protests.
But this time round, you could log in and listen into the conversations. So, I had been listening to GenZ conversations on the XSpaces and I realized that the conversation was mainly about issues that resonate deeply. The GenZ protest is mainly about an unjust society that works for a few, that’s why it resonates with so many Kenyans; #RejectFinanceBill2024 is merely a rallying cry.
Put simply, they are totally fed up with a deeply flawed and unjust order of affairs in Kenya:
1.They are fed up with an order that GLORIFIES corruption, mediocrity, thieves, tenderprenuers, ethnic chauvinists, charlatans and liars while leaving freshly graduated doctors jobless after 20 years of schooling. The thought leaders in XSpaces are mostly highly educated but yet highly UNDERemployed brilliant young women and men.
2.They are fed up with an order that HOLDS BACK innovators, teachers, doctors, nurses, entrepreneurs, the educated, the straight players, the unconnected, and those without heritage.
The issue is simply about a more just society that works for all!
And when we got to the protest, it was encouraging that most of those that I managed to speak with had never also been to any demos, but they felt that this one was speaking to their deep frustrations. I met doctors, entrepreneurs, analysts, nurses, lawyers, engineers, you name it, and mostly young and middleclass, the type you never expect to see in Kenyan demos. There were nurses dressed in scrubs who used their lunch break to come protest. No one cared about tribe, class or party affiliation, the common goal was simply a deep yearning for change. A yearning that THEY NEVER KNEW HOW TO ARTICULATE until GenZ showed us the way.
It’s unfortunate that innocent young people lost their lives in the course of venting their frustrations. I hope that GenZ will keep up the push for a more just national order and most importantly enlist baby boomers, GenX like myself, and the millennials into a PEACEFUL struggle to make Kenya a better place for its citizens and a beacon of hope and prosperity in Africa.
The protest was NOT about #RejectFinanceBill2024, that was just a rallying cry. The protest was about a deeply unjust society under a tone deaf leadership.
Hope to share, soon, some random thoughts on what I saw on the protest fields and the specific issues that took me to protest. May God bless our country.
Mama I made it!
I occupied Parliament
Remember the #occupyParliament demonstrations?
But tell daddy I’m sorry
I won’t come home tonight
Not because I’m spending at a friends’. No!
Not because I’m among the injured.
No!
Nor because I was abducted as they have to most of us.
That would have been better
I’m in a cold dark place called the morgue Mama
I know daddy will be angry why I wore his shoes
I had to, I know they are bigger but I had to
Otherwise no one could have.
I know he will complain that I have read too much political novels
Please don’t let him blame Animal Farm,
Don’t let him blame Kidagaa Kimemwozea,
Don’t let him blame Tumbo Lisiloshiba,
Don’t let him blame Kifo Kisimani,
Don’t let him blame Mstahiki Meya,
Or Parliament of Owls
They can’t be blamed.
I did it for Our country.
They hailed us for being fearless Mama!
They called it an historic moment; actually unprecedented.
Did you watch the news?
All over the country thousands of us matched forward, wearing mostly black,
chanting slogans and singing revolutionary songs.
They call us GenZ Mama.
Some Mpigs say we have watched too much Netflix and we eat KFC.
Sorry for the spelling mistakes Mama,
I meant MPs.
Did you see how we sang ‘Kudade’ with Mc Gogo?
Did you see how Juliani turned up and we sang ‘Utawala’?
That song you call ‘Nikoo njaa siwezi karanga’?
Did you hear us sing ‘Tujiangalie’by Sauti Sol?
Have you seen King Kaka’s ‘ Wanataka Kutumaliza’?
Did you see how Mulamwah gave us Tea and Mandazi?
Have you seen all the comedians, Content creators and influencers?
I told you it will be Big Mama!
We matched forward Mama Slowly and peacefully Like you told me
We said we were peaceful
They rattled us with teargas and water canons Mama
We coughed, cried and chocked to the smoke but still matched on
We matched amidst the sting of that pink water they sprayed on us with those beastly vehicles
But nothing was more painful than hearing them pass that draconian punitive Bill Mama.
Remember how you used to forcefully give us porridge by locking us between your legs, pinching our noses then pouring a tone of porridge in our forcibly opened mouth?
Leaving us with two choices; swallowing or choking to death?
That’s what they did to us yesterday Mama
But unlike in the past, today’s child chose the latter; death!
We approached the parliament as promised.
We eventually occupied Parliament Mama
Albeit briefly.
The wall gave in and we entered.
I’m sorry I did not taste the rice
As some did Mama
All I tasted was the bullets Mama
They sprayed me with bullets Mama,
That’s why i won’t come home.
My battle is over Mama
But not the revolutionary war.
Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the LORD ’s Will is.
Ephesians 5:15-17
You can’t manipulate the Universe. Being “fake nice,” strategically kind, practicing inorganic positivity…none of these things will help you attract better. The Universe responds to your frequency, not to the image you’re trying to uphold.