Ruto will make a better president.
- Strict father; respectful children.
- Masculine husband; submissive wife.
- No alcohol; sober, energetic.
- No room for mediocrity.
- Cunning.
- Ruthless in execution.
- Brutal for results.
He should force Rigathi to UNFAT.
Men,
Your sons are back home from school for mid-term break,
Sit down and talk with them.
Remind them to:
- shave their pubic hair
- aerate their bedding in the sun
- trim their nails
- wash, iron & fold their clothes
- weed the vegetable garden
#MasculinitySaturday
The 6S of healthy living:
• Sun ☀️
• SALT 🧂
• Steak: Meat & eggs 🍖
• Sweat 🏋️♀️
• Sleep 🛏
• Skip meals: FASTING 🍽
Eat your food like medicines, or you will eat medicines as food forever.
#BetterTogether
When you move into an apartment where people are silent, private and mind their own business,
Embrace the same culture,
Extend the same GRACE.
Don't move into an apartment and become the one who is noisy, chaotic, disrespectful, and belligerent.
The people you found living in that apartment are not silent and private so that your noise can thrive.
They are silent because they value their privacy.
Once you sign the terms of agreement with the landlord, adhere to them.
Respect your neighbours.
Or, move back to the noisy place you came from.
Respecting people is a valued trait.
A lot of men in marriage go through painful emotional violence from their wives SILENTLY.
They can't speak out.
They suffer the lies and allegations from their wives silently without open rebuttal.
They can't defend themselves.
Because these women have convinced the world that the man is the problem.
These wives in public present themselves as victims of a bad husband, then use this victimhood as a power of terror over the husband.
In public, these women present themselves as happy souls, good, warm at heart. They are always writing joyful comments on social media, expressing themselves as gorgeous and high-energy women.
In public, or at work, they are always up and about, trying to please everyone. Trying to carve out an image of a warm-hearted person who is liked by everyone.
Nobody will agree with the man if he explains that it is the woman who is the problem in that marriage.
This is manipulation, and her target doesn't notice her strategy.
These wives have hearty laughs and rosy conversations with people, showing a picture of a woman who is so good and lovely.
Yet, back at home, she is the demon.
Silent but dangerous.
Terrorizes her husband.
The husband won't speak,
Because the woman has convinced everyone through her manipulative drama that it is the man who is not likeable.
These wives are what we call NARCISSISTIC WIVES.
These wives are CUNNING, MANIPULATIVE and CALLOUS.
We say THE DARK TRIAD PERSONALITY
• Narcissism
• Machiavellism
• Psychopathy
They are narcissistic, they have mastered the emotions of the man, which they manipulate and use to advance their terror on the man.
They use Machiavellianism as a tool for manipulating the relatives and friends of the man to portray the man as a bad man, and portray herself as the victim, when in truth, she is the perpetrator.
They are psychopathic when cornered. They can yell, scream or walk naked to prove a point or blame the man.
A lot of men live with these demons.
These are dangerous women.
They are selfish, dangerous, and they can land you in trouble because every move is about her survival, and nothing about the man or the family.
You can only discover these personality traits late in marriage, probably 15 years deep, with no return.
She uses any of her dark triad personality traits to survive through the conflicts.
Unless you make the conscious step to break free from the prison of this demon, you will suffer for good.
The Men's Mental Health Month is coming to an end today.
But, a man doesn't need a month to prioritize his psychological wellness.
You should do it daily.
• Fix your diet
• Walk
• Lift
• Sun
• Sleep
• SALT
• Reject manipulation by women, relatives and friends.
Men,
Pay attention to every signal a woman sends about her:
• Values,
• Lifestyle,
• Decision-making.
A tattoo is such a signal.
When you ignore these signals because of beauty, you will later discover that beauty was the cheapest thing she brought.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
A woman with tattoos is a mess.
You can ignore, but the consequences are severe.
• Several body counts
• Unresolved trauma
• Abortions
• Chaos
• Loose morals
Values incompatible with traditional family life.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
✌️
It is a wrap!
IMPORTANT LESSON:
Sexual discipline is not repression but it is direction.
A man who spills his energy everywhere will never have enough for his mission.
Restrain, Redirect and then REBUILD.
#MasculinitySaturday
Some parents don't attend school's AGM, class meetings, or academic meetings. Those who attend, sit with their children at the rugby pitch eating chips and gossiping. They miss key resolutions in those meetings.
Then when school raise school fees, they act shocked and agitated.
Everyone is waiting for your downfall.
Everyone is waiting for the right condition to insult you.
Don't give them the opportunity.
Tighten your boundaries and close the doors.
Men,
Never trust what a woman tells you,
“I love you”
“I will never leave you”
“We are meant to be together”
These are emotions she triggers to please herself at that moment,
Her words & promises are baseless.
Two days later she will dump you.
#MasculinitySaturday
Masculine boredom is a sign of growth.
It is the state where you no longer find pleasure in shallow conversations, cheap thrills, or empty nights.
This kind of boredom is not depression, it is TRANSITION.
It means you are growing from:
• Consumer to CREATOR.
• Noise to ORDER.
• Distraction to DESTINY.
Embrace and value this boredom because this is where your seeds will germinate and flourish.
Distraction is your enemy, and it leads to poverty.
A man who jumps from idea to idea will never overcome struggle.
• Pick one skill.
• Master it.
• Monetize it.
• Repeat.
Men,
Frank Lampard would be the best Chelsea coach,
Ole Gunnar Solskjær would be the best Man United coach,
Mikel Arteta will be the best Arsenal coach,
Do you see the pattern?
Your son represents your vision & values.
Raise a good son and entrust him.
#MasculinitySaturday