Rule 1: Don't be flirty/date with your co-workers. Rule 2: Your colleagues are not your friends. Rule 3: Don't crave to be liked at work. Rule 4: Keep your life private
"My son only tried to rob you, and you took his life, that was an abuse of force, YOU must pay for this"
A veteran, home alone, has 3 armed thugs break into his house, and he eliminates all 3 with multiple shots to the head and chest.
Using the same logic her now dead son used when he decided to arm himself and rob people, the black woman feels the veteran should be charged with murder and sentenced to death for protecting his own life and home from her thug offspring. It's YOUR problem her son was fatally unsuccessful, and you must pay.
The solution to imprison the homeowner is black logic.