Recovery takes a long time and addictive behavior takes time to unlearn. If a recovering addict is reverting to addictive behaviors, gently remind them that they are now in recovery and don’t enable their addictive behavior. #addiction vs #recovery
@persianfoxxx So he’s playing it down & trying to control it, while you’re traumatized. Will anyone ever see that it cannot be everyone in his life that is the problem? Everyone he is closest to, there becomes an issue which is traumatic & gets people to side with him and plays victim. NO!
Narcissists never keep their promises - “I’m sorry, I’ll change” “I’ll never do that again”
“I’ll pay you back” “I’ll do/fix it later”
If it’s not about them, involve them or it belongs to them, it means nothing to them.
Healing is draining because you start to realize how much you've missed out on, how badly you were abused, and what you actually deserved. Ironically, grieving such losses is revitalizing because it releases energy that's bound to the lost experience, so that we can alchemize it.
I mean I guess I get it he made yall accomplices to so much.... Yall should be mad for all the harassment you did in his name, fake reports you filed, the fake reviews yall left, harassing people at their job. It was yall who took this beyond Twitter! #GodSeesEverySingleOneofYou
@VanGyner This breaks my heart. I love you guys, thank you for speaking out. I pray that people can see this and that he gets the help he truly needs and has needed for a long time. Recovery is a long process and he is still showing past addictive behavior, and I pray the enabling ends. 💔
Be careful who you build with. Some people will use you for the foundation, then finish the structure with someone else. Pay attention to the signs. Stop allowing people to show you twice what they already showed you once. It's time to start taking care of you and your own needs.