In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. You cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.
Gustavo Fring was right, if you have a problem that means it can be solved. If it cannot be solved then it is not a problem. It is a reality to be accepted.
Dating a lady with a child is not for weak boys.
I remember this one time I dated this lady because I was convinced that being a stepfather isn't bad. Yoh! That kid didn't feel me at all. He would just stand and look at me without saying anything. I thought maybe he was still getting used to me. He will defrost as time goes on.
4 months later, the kid is still quiet. Even when we are eating, he would come and stand in front of me, then bite my drumstick, start chewing while looking at me. It was like an old person in the kids' body.
This one time, his mother left me with him and went to the shops. I was waiting by the door just in case he decided to do some funny stuff. I kept throwing him snacks, but I was ready to call his mother and put her on loudspeaker if he started crying so she could reprimand him.
One night, I woke up as I wanted to go and pee. The lights in the passage were off. I found that kid standing right there in the dark looking at me, shuuu!! I started praying “Rhaa fire in the name Jesus, in Jesus' name go away bad spirits”, his mother woke up and said, “Noo stop shouting at the child”. I looked at her and told her that the kid is possessed. That made her angry, so I decided to go sleep on the couch. In the AMs I heard something breathing heavy, even a cow couldn't match that breathing. When I opened my eyes it's that kid standing on top of the coffee table eating a Banana looking at me, but why? I went to the kitchen fast, got rough salt. It was time to tackle it the African, I started pouring him with that salt while I kept saying “Satan uhambe wrong namhlanje, phuma kum”. Meaning satan not today, leave me alone.
The mother woke up and chased me away, I took my stuff and left, it was 3am. Now I only date ladies without kids. 😭😭
Unfortunately,Those people you expect to suffer because they wronged you,will not suffer. I have seen the most undeserving people prospering without even breaking sweat. I don’t even pray these days. What for? Yet the lord has his own plans that dont care about what I feel
You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
Most of these girls with tattoos are experienced in sexual corruption and immorality.
They are manipulative. Liars and crooks.
Once you wear a condom, thinking you are protecting yourself, she will use her nails to tear off the rubber.
Or she will "innocently" ask you,
"My sweet honey, don't you trust me? I am honest. If I were dishonest, I wouldn't have opened up for you?"
Then you, with your gullibility, you lose your mind, and dip your dick into a snake park.
These are true stories I gather from my DMs.
But because you are naive, you may not understand the consequences of this sexual fraud until you check into a hospital with:
• Urethral discharge
• Pain when urinating
• Blood in urine
• Painful, swollen testicles
You will suffer these severe urethral symptoms just because you ignored my advice since low-lifes on X told you 'a tat is just ink, ignore Amerix.'
It is NOT.
The idea behind the tattoo is what tells the story, not the cosmetics on the skin.
A woman who goes for a tattoo is simply hiding from sexual trauma and reproductive failure:
• abortions
• failed relationships
• sexual prostitution
• alcoholism
• fatherlessness
• crime
She hopes the tattoo will hide her flaws. The tattoo is a red herring that distracts you.
The tattoo could be beautiful to your eye, maybe, but her soul is so dirty and irreparably damaged.
Have you ever met a woman with a tattoo who doesn't drink alcohol or who has no history of chaos?
Women love to preserve the integrity of their skin. They value their skin so much that they would never want flaws, dirt, ink, or cuts on their skin.
This is because a woman's skin tells the story of her fertility, fecundity and femininity.
A woman who has knowingly severed the integrity of her skin is a woman you should avoid.
Think.