@Mark__Morris@jon_d_doe Lol it’s alright. Sorry I’m assuming you’re not. However, I’d still recommend she moves on because everyone knows what they’re doing and the guy consciously, intentionally and deliberately chose to do all he did, it wasn’t a mistake. She better do right by herself & her son sha.
@Mark__Morris@jon_d_doe A woman lost everything, and on top of that, had a child, her man abandoned her, you’re not thinking that she needs all the support she can get but somehow, she’s at fault. You’re still a terrible person and you’re not kind. Please learn kindness and empathy.
@Lymarh__ I hope the guy values himself & respects himself enough to move on & not waste his love & attention on someone who doesn’t value it & who doesn’t appreciate it. Not everyone is capable of having a healthy relationship & proper communication in this generation, you’re one of them
@jon_d_doe I really hope women learn to respect themselves and love themselves selfishly like men do. You can forgive, however you better get your ass up, make up your mind strongly and know that you have no one. Then get to work and start building again, cry, wipe ur tears and get working
@Mark__Morris@jon_d_doe You “hope” he takes accountability, “men are polygamous in nature”, “she should start working to get him attracted to her again”. A grown man misbehaved, did terrible things, betrayed the woman he calls his wife and abandoned her with his kid but somehow, the woman is to blame 🤦♀️
@Gideon1762779@UgwunnaEjikem It should never be at all. It’s an irritating and terrible behavior. If an adult cannot communicate his or her feelings and have the difficult conversations, you have no business getting married, cos that’s for adults and the person clearly is not one
And after you have done as he wishes or directs, he just kpai you and collect everything. He has seen that to you marriage is everything in life and tht is why you are even giving his talks a mention. Must you be married? If yes, must you be married to him? You are 38, so what? There is a man out there for you, if marriage is your ultimate.
Even at 50,60, yiu don't sell your properties to earn marriage.
You can always have children( without marriage) if that is what you really want. Improve on yourself mentally, PLEASE.
Don't you have family members? Has he isolated you from your family members already?:
Any relationship or marriage that will make you incommunicado with your family should be fled from
Many are maæd, few are roaming.
Big hugs to you because I know you neee it 🫂🫂🫶