The tragedy of marrying a used woman is this, you'll give everything for what countless men once had for nothing. They took their pleasure and vanished. You'll stay, paying in loyalty, time, and sanity.
Her past won't haunt her, it'll haunt you. Because you'll know you're overpaying for what others got free.
Would a wise man spend a fortune on what was once public property?
Would a king compete with peasants for the same spoiled fruit?
The cruel irony?
She'll measure you against those men, and demand you earn what they were simply given.
Get married while you still believe love is enough.
Because once experience fully arrives..a man starts asking questions that fantasy can no longer answer.
A wise man understands something most young men don't.
Marriage can multiply your peace.
Or multiply your problems.
And the wrong choice affects every area of your life.
A young man sees: "My dream girl."
An older man sees:
her habits
her character
her impulse control
her behavior under pressure
her ability to bring peace or chaos
Wisdom changes what gets your attention.
That's why older men become harder to impress.
Life has a way of educating men.
Failed relationships.
Divorces.
Betrayals.
Broken families.
Promises that meant nothing.
Every lesson removes another illusion.