Dear @thatverydarkman (VDM)
I hope you’re good, bro.
I just want you to pay attention to this open letter because I believe it is very important. Hopefully, after reading this, you will stop paying attention to anyone who tries to drag you online or make you come out and respond to every person who calls you a DISTRACTION.
Today, let me be the first to break this down for you so you can see what is really going on.
WHOEVER CALLS YOU A DISTRACTION IS THE REAL DISTRACTION.📌
I will say it again: anyone, group or organisation that keeps calling VDM a "DISTRACTION" may actually be the one distracting people from the real issues.
Let me remind you of something.
You have been doing this for a very long time. You have exposed scammers, criminals, fraudulent online vendors, oppressors, traffickers and different forms of injustice. At those times, many of the same people were happy with you. They praised you, shared your posts and thanked you for speaking up.
But the moment you touched someone they support, like:
≈Their Favourite celebrity,
≈Their Politician,
≈Their Close friend,
≈Their Sponsor
≈Or even their family member, that was when everything changed.
The same people who once praised you became angry and bitter. Not because you changed, but because you remained consistent.
Now they call you a distraction almost every day. They tell you to go back to the way you used to call out different people. But what they fail to understand is simple:
£vil is £vil. A criminal is a criminal, regardless of who the person is or how much you like them.
Now, this is the part I really want you to understand, which is the tactics they have become very good at using.
🚨 In-group Bias and Cognitive Dissonance
They protect their own. Once you expose someone they support, they struggle to accept that their person may actually have done something wrong. Instead of facing the truth, it becomes easier to attack the person bringing the issue to light.
🚨 Deflection — "Sh∅∅t the Messenger"
So, instead of addressing the matter you raised, they MAKE YOU THE SUBJECT of the conversation. They stop talking about the issue and start talking about you.
That is the whole point of calling you a distraction.
🚨 DARVO
This is another tactic that fits what we are seeing:
D — Deny that their favourite person did anything wrong.
A — Attack you for exposing the issue.
R — Reverse the situation.
V — Victim and
O — Offender.
In other words, they turn the whole thing around and make you look like the problem.
They want you to stop investigating. They want you to only call out people they dislike while leaving their own people alone.
But that is not justice.
That is selective outrage.
You are not a distraction, VDM.
You are being consistent.
You have always maintained that when something is wrong, it should be called out regardless of who is involved. If a person is wrong, the person is wrong. It should not suddenly become acceptable because that person happens to be somebody's favourite.
Don't let people who only supported you when you were attacking their enemies suddenly decide who you should speak about. If you start changing your standards simply because people are complaining, then you are no longer being consistent.
Keep your focus.
The same people who are angry with you today may be the first people to praise you tomorrow when you expose somebody outside their circle.
Clock it
You are not the distraction.
You are the alarm.📌
Stay focused, bro. Let the noise remain noise.
Tag @thatverydarkman so he can read this.
End!
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