Mathias

Something can not come from nothing.

[Coach Swit @CoachSwit]

In the stands, a H.S. parent complains to anyone who will listen that his kid isn't playing much.

Another parent: "Team is 15-2, Top 5 in the state, winning the league."

Response: "I don't care about that."

And there you have it.

For some parents, it's never about the team.

[Jim Hayes @RegionalTVCat]

Youth baseball 50 years ago: you got a cap and a tee shirt. The toughskin jeans came straight from Sears and you had to provide those yourself.

[The Fan - Winona @TheFanWinona]

Five athletes sign Letters of Intent from @cotterschools!

Read:
https://t.co/HZI7DjVSRA

[Troy Silva @TroyPSilva]

It’s official.
It’s so hard to sit and watch your kid play the game they love and listen to some of the nonsense that parents talk about.

It’s really not that bad.
You don’t need to complain about every little detail.
You don’t need to try and dissect everything the coach is thinking.
You don’t need to get upset over every close ball/strike call.
You don’t need to offer your hitting advice after every pitch.
You don’t need to question every decision.
You don’t need to make excuses for poor play.

Please just stop 🛑
It’s so annoying and embarrassing at the same time.

#BaseballTruth

[Tommy Reamon Jr. @tommyreamon]

Less than 3% of AAU basketball players go on to play in college.

Families are investing thousands in fees, travel, hotels, weekends, and time… chasing exposure.

Make sure you’re not just spending. Make sure you’re actually being developed and evaluated.

[Mathias @Mathiasthe13th]

@CommonManKFAN he’s no mouth guitar guy

[MLB @MLB]

Four-time whistling champion and member of the Whistling Hall of Fame, Chris Ullman, whistled the national anthem in Baltimore tonight!

[MLB @MLB]

Four-time whistling champion and member of the Whistling Hall of Fame, Chris Ullman, whistled the national anthem in Baltimore tonight!

[Maine @TheMaineWonk]

Are you enjoying the golden age, MAGA?

- New Regime Change War
- Rising Gas Prices
- TSA shutdown
- Record Insurance Premiums
- Frozen Job Market
- Brazen Corruption
- 4.2% Forecasted Inflation
- Market Correction
- Sinking BTC
- Rising Mortgage Rates
- Housing Crisis

[Mathias @Mathiasthe13th]

@CoachDavidKlein I did this all the time when I coached in Shanghai. We called it rounders. As they got older we let the runner keep running until they were forced out. We kept bases short, some kids might collect 10 points on a hit. The kids were running, ball was everywhere and it was awesome.

[The Tennessee Holler @TheTNHoller]

WATCH — @ScottSeiss: "Oh yeah, the economy is doing great… as long as your grandfather's job title included the word tycoon. The top 10% do half of all spending, young people can't afford rent or food.”

[Jon Favreau @jonfavs]

Yes. James is the kind of leader we need in public life right now.

[Isaiah Martin @isaiahrmartin]

Trump’s State of the Union 😂

[Team Talarico @TeamTalaricoHQ]

HUGE turnout for James Talarico in deep-red Tyler, Texas 🤯

[Mathias @Mathiasthe13th]

@CoachSwit It’s amazing how many families will spend thousands/10s of thousands just for the opportunity to pay 10s of thousands/100s thousands more for their kid to play in college

[Steve Magness @stevemagness]

Norway is once again dominating the winter Olympics.

And this is their youth sports program:

Participation trophies for all kids.
No keeping score until 13.
No national travel competitions in youth sports.
No posting youth results online.
Motto: “Joy of Sport for All.”

They let kids be kids. And it works.

But…it’s the winter Olympics,right? Recently, they have had tremendous success in summer sports.

Karsten Warholm demolished the 400 meter hurdles world record. Kristian Blummenfelt broke the Ironman triathlon record and won Olympic gold. His training partner, Gustav Ivan, won the 2022 Ironman World Championship. Casper Ruud reached world number two in tennis. Viktor Hovland is a top ten golfer in the world. Erling Haaland set the record for the most goals in a season in the Premier League. Beach volleyball champs, a surge of elite runners. By any metric, Norway’s elite athletes are achieving on a global stage. Yet, if we turn to their youth sports, their programs are the opposite of the US.

Norway doesn’t allow for official scorekeeping until the age of thirteen. They dissuade early national travel teams in favor of local leagues. You can’t even post the results of youth games online without being fined. And almost sacrilegious in certain American circles, Norway doesn’t allow trophies unless everyone gets one.

As Tore Ovrebo, Norway’s director of elite sport, told USA Today writer Dan Wolken, “We think the biggest motivation for the kids to do sports is that they do it with their friends and they have fun while they’re doing it and we want to keep that feeling throughout their whole career.” Their youth sporting model can be summed up with their chosen slogan, “Joy of Sport for All.”

But not keeping score, giving out trophies, not being “win at all costs”...that’s anti-American! How can they be competitive?

Research backs their approach up.

1. The fire has to come from within

If you look at ​research​ on prodigies who eventually become standout adult performers, a deep intrinsic drive is paramount. Researchers found that intrinsically motivated football players were 3.5x more likely to make it to the next level, and athletes in general 2x more likely.

The problem is that early success often pulls young people away from this inner drive. Kids start playing soccer (or violin or chess—this isn’t just about sports) because it is exciting and fun. As they improve, they gain accolades and praise from their parents, coaches, and teachers. They start winning trophies or seeing their names in online commentary. Without even realizing it, their intrinsic drive gets replaced by external validation and a need to please and impress others.

The quickest way to kill that internal motivation? Hype achievements and be a crazy controlling parent or coach.

The best way to create and maintain intrinsic motivation is to let kids dabble, explore, and find something with which their interests and talents align. Then, let them enjoy it without an undue emphasis on success. Praise effort, character, and teamwork, not results. This is easy to talk about but hard to do. Find ways to reward and incentivize the values you want to instill. That means not taking the easy road and talking about who set a new mile best or scored the most points, but instead highlighting who hustled during the fourth quarter, rallied after it seemed like the match was over, or displayed exemplary sportsmanship.

2. Go Broad over Specialization

Even if the entire point of youth sports was to create future champions (which it’s not), we’d still adopt something similar to the Norwegian model. An ​analysis​ of over 6,000 athletes explored what separates athletes who reached world class and those who came up short.

Those who reached world-class had during their youth:
-More multi-sport than specialized practice
-Started their primary sport later
-Accumulated less overall formal practice
-Initially progressed slower than national class peers

Those who performed well when young, but didn’t progress:
-Started their primary sport earlier
-Specialized, engaging in more practice in one sport
-Made quicker initial progress

Norway doesn’t have 300 plus million people and an NCAA system to funnel talent. They have to develop theirs. And they realize the best way to do that is keep as many people in the system as possible.

Why? Because you can’t predict talent development very well! Just go look at the age group record books. It’s easy to fool yourself into thinking early performance equals talent and potential. The kid running a 6-minute mile at 10 looks way better than the one running 6:45. But if the faster one is at track practice 5 days a week and the slower one rolls out of gym class in jeans and runs it off “fitness” from just playing, well I’m betting on the slower one!

When we assess performance early on, we’re not measuring talent, we’re looking at training age and opportunity. And we’re crowning winners based on who started grinding first.

America gets away with the insane achievement model because we can burn out 9 kids to get 1 survivor. Norway can’t afford to do that. They take the longer, more sustainable model.

Rethinking Youth Sports:

The whole point of youth sports should be for kids to learn, develop, have fun, and want to come back and play again next season! The best chance of developing a D1 scholarship athlete is essentially to do the exact opposite of what our current youth sports fiasco promotes. Even the poster child for early specialization, Tiger Woods, ​acknowledged​ it’s not a good thing for parents to push their kids too hard: “Don’t force your kids into sports,” he says. “I never was. To this day, my dad has never asked me to go play golf. I ask him. It’s the child’s desire to play that matters, not the parent’s desire to have the child play. Keep it fun.”

While youth sports in America aren’t going to adopt the Norwegian model anytime soon, we can rebalance the equation. As I outlined in my book, it’s not getting rid of competitiveness, it’s rebalancing the equation to make sure that crazy mom, dad, or coach don’t extinguish the fire that makes great competitors (and sport fun!).

In research on performance orientation and grades in school, a teaching environment that supported and emphasized mastery[PA1] , where students focused on the process of learning and comprehension instead of a comparison to others, was also linked to better grades. But it wasn’t the direct relationship that an outcome orientation had. Instead, in one study on college students, a mastery approach was linked to challenge-seeking, which in turn predicted end-of-the-year grades. In another study, mastery goals predicted higher levels of interest and enjoyment. Mastery works on our approach system without activating avoidance. It frees us up to take on a challenge and pursue our interests without getting bogged down by the pressure or judgment that often comes with an obsession with outcomes. The same findings hold true when looking at sport or the workplace. In a large meta-analysis that analyzed the impact of goal setting in sports, process-orientated goals had a large effect on performance. Outcome goals had little to no effect.

These two paths represent a fast versus slow road to success. Both a mastery or outcome focus can lead to better performance, but the latter is akin to taking a shortcut. Obsession over outcomes is the most direct path to improvement, but it comes with some downsides that shift us toward avoidance. The slow path takes a longer, indirect route. It helps improve our performance not by focusing on the results themselves but by supporting the foundation that ultimately leads to better performance. It stokes the fire of enjoyment and interest to sustain our curiosity and work ethic over the long haul. It pushes us toward challenge-seeking so that when we inevitably hit a roadblock, we’ll take it on instead of trying to protect our ego. Both approaches work. One is more sustainable, providing success with less angst. Society has thrown us so far out of balance that we can’t even see the slow route right in front of us.

We can either instill a love of sport in our youth, or we can turn sport into a burden where kids are exhausted, stressed, and scared. We’ve seen this go both ways, and the results couldn’t be more different. One leads to happy, healthy, and better young athletes. The other leads to burnout, family tension, mental health challenges, and quitting. As parents, volunteers, coaches, and community members, let’s all do what we can to minimize the latter and champion the former.

-Steve

[Don Thomas @REALDonThomas]

As a former college baseball player, and current youth baseball coach, this is completely insane. Sports should be a vehicle to learn life lessons, not a money pit to chase a one-in-a-million dream.

Parents, don’t get hustled by the $40 billion youth sports industry.

[Sean Strickland @Coach__Strick]

I remember being at a 7th grade game and telling a parent only 2 of the 13 on team might make it to senior year🏀 Just my eval on what I saw.

Parent was so pissed. Telling me how competitive the group was and I was so wrong.

1 made it to senior year🤷🏼‍♂️

Just enjoy the ride💯

[Mathias @Mathiasthe13th]

@DanBarreiroKFAN you may need to send him the link to sermons!1

[Mathias @Mathiasthe13th]

@GymBr_o BP ready