When asked about his five marriages, James Cameron said;
"Being attracted to strong independent women has the downside that they’re strong independent women – they inherently don’t need you..."
time is only a measurement..other than that it’s not even real..don’t let it stress you out. take your time..obsession with future outcomes that don’t even exist yet can really trigger anxiety. just set some goals, be patient, assertive, and have some fun. happy new year.