i’m so exhausted of doing mental gymnastics to better understand everyone’s weird behavior + decisions towards me. too many people navigate their life blind to the fact that their sole priority is coddling their ego, and it makes nearly every relationship feel inauthentic.
I’ve made peace with the fact that i may never find genuine love or get married.
Now it’s Work, make money, enjoy life and nurture close friendships.
Lmao.
Así se siente llegar a tu casa cuando eres neurodivergente y tienes que performar conscientemente comportamientos y habilidades sociales que los neurotípicos hacen de forma intuitiva
One thing I realized about being an intense person is that no matter how many people say it’s okay or they accept you, in reality they don’t. It becomes too much for others to deal with- understandably so. Keep your thoughts & feelings to yourself.
Iv’e learned that real character is quiet. you don’t have to convince people you’re a good woman. If you are, they’ll feel it in the way you move, the way you love, the way you show up, and the way you leave people better than you found them.
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, learn to love yourself, learn to prioritize you, learn to say NO, learn to mind your business, learn not to care too much and lastly, understand that you don't need everybody to like you.
The autistic experience of rarely feeling sexually/romantically attracted to anyone because we're attracted to authenticity in a society where almost everyone is pretending to be someone else.
Le prochain qui osera venir déranger ma paix et mon célibat ferait mieux d’avoir de vraies intentions. Je n’ai plus l’âge ni le temps pour les relations de quelques semaines ou quelques mois sans direction. Une relation, pour moi, ce n’est pas un divertissement : c’est un engagement qui doit avoir une vision, jusqu’au mariage. Les histoires futiles, les promesses vides et les pertes de temps, c’est terminé.
Honestly dying young would be the best option for me, i have no passion for any jobs in life, can barely handle alot of human interactions and need constant isolation to feel okay and it feels impossible to change that about myself no matter what I try, i hate being this way😭
One of the loneliest neurodivergent experiences is being intellectually capable of understanding almost everything that’s happening around you… while simultaneously struggling to participate in it the way other people seem to.
Anything I do for someone comes from a place of love. you’ll never have to question my intentions or wonder if there’s a hidden agenda behind my kindness. If I care about you, it’s real and not transactional. I show up because i choose to, not because i need anything from you.
Made a fool of myself thinking someone had romantic feelings for me only to receive further evidence I might actually be incapable of being loved so now I’m looking for clown shoes