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People don't actually want advice. They already know what they should be doing. They want someone to listen and support them.
Here's how to stop giving unsolicited advice:
Introverts don't fit in. They kinda like to be in their own world. Quiet world. Cosy world. A world full of love & good vibes. A world of meaning and deep contemplation. They like to be alone not because they are anti-social, but because they don't need people to feel fulfilled.
Introverts love authenticity. Real & raw. Straightforward. In your face. No games. No winning approvals. They like to keep things plain, simple, and honest. And trust me they're not rude. It's just that they have no tolerance for drama, stupidity, and fake people.