3. You Are Marrying Her Family and Her Past.
You are not just marrying a woman.
You are marrying the product of her upbringing, her relationship with her father, her mother's marriage, and her unresolved traumas.
Her reactions are often not about you, but about ghosts from her past.
Ignore this at your peril.
Understand her history, or you will be doomed to repeat its conflicts.
There are stuff in real life that cannot be transmitted in books and stuff in books you can never pick up in real life.
The disease is the inclination to learn from books what you must learn in real life and attempts to reinvent from experience what can only be found in books.
"A GOLDEN RULE in ETHICS Take a moment to figure out whether you'd rather be praiseworthy but not praised, or praised but not praiseworthy." - Nassim Taleb #ethics
We ignore our HEALTH to earn money
We ignore our FAMILY to earn money
We ignore our FRIENDS to earn money
We ignore our HOBBIES to earn money
We ignore our BREATH to earn money
Just to realise that, we have NONE when we earn money.
You can be wrong.
Your parents can be wrong.
Your teachers can be wrong.
Your gurus can be wrong.
Your boss can be wrong.
Your clients can be wrong.
Everyone in this world can be biased & wrong.
So, just relax & take your own time to analyse things.
In the pursuit of something, there is always something else which is left behind.
You should always ask yourself, "In order to achieve 'X', is it really worth it to sacrifice 'Y'?