A green light for men to murder their pregnant partners and psychos to shoot up abortion clinics. And an important insight into just how much these "pro-lifers" value women's lives.
My wife and I eloped, but a month later we had a small party to celebrate with family and friends. Somewhere on the invitation we wrote, “bring an appetite,” which my wife’s Uncle Jerry misread as “bring an appetizer.” He showed up at the venue with a crockpot of enchiladas.
Club culture will be a thing again if yall start hiring them TikTok DJs, bring back ladies free before 11, outlaw party promoters and make drinks under $20 again
El día que fuimos a pactar la manutención de mi hija, su papá dijo:
“Yo no la mandé a vivir en estrato 4.
Yo no la mandé a que la metieran en un colegio privado”.
Me molestó mucho, porque hay personas tan escasas a nivel mental y emocional que no logran entender algo tan simple: un padre debería alegrarse de que sus hijos estén bien y de que alguien quiera darles lo mejor.
Hay papás que creen que la cuota de alimentos es un favor que le hacen a la mamá, pero no es así. Eso hace parte del bienestar y de los derechos de sus hijos.
Y algo tengo muy claro: con o sin sus aportes, como mamás siempre vamos a querer darles lo mejor a nuestros hijos.
There are so many happily married men on the internet giving free game and 9/10x the advice boils down to “hey, be really sweet to your lady and do nice for things for her sometimes” lmao
Sometimes male anger at ‘women getting special treatment’ reminds me of a gorilla experiment.
One gorilla gets a banana every hour. The females next to him get one every four hours. Then someone decides to be ‘fairer’ and gives the females a banana every two hours instead. The original gorilla? He flips out. He’s still getting his banana every hour, but it feels like a loss because his advantage shrank.
That’s how a lot of men react to basic fairness for women: not as justice, but as theft.
My classmate was raped on her way back home from university and got pregnant, but couldn’t get an abortion due to the laws. She had to drop out of university where she was studying medicine. Because of pregnancy and childbirth expenses, she couldn’t continue her studies, left college, started working at a coffee shop, lost the fun of her early twenties, and lost the chance to attend international medical conferences she once dreamt of… all just to give birth to a child she never wanted.
People say, “What if the baby you abort grows up and cures cancer?”
Okay — but what if the 19-year-old you deny an abortion to grows up and cures cancer?
Now she can’t afford to get an education. Instead, she has to take care of a baby. What about her? An actual living human being???
“Abortion ends potential life”… So do property disputes, war, and genocide. You only seem to care about lives when women don’t give birth to them.
You have to stop treating it like a performance where you are trying to become the best version of yourself. It is not theatre. It is not self transformation day after day. You do it the way you brush your teeth. It is not about liking or disliking it. It is simply something you do.
The moment you frame working out as a heroic arc, you introduce emotion into it. Motivation, inspiration, identity, self judgment. That makes it unstable. Some days you will feel like the protagonist. Most days you will not.
But brushing your teeth requires no identity. No inspiration. No self analysis.
It is maintenance. When exercise becomes maintenance rather than self-improvement theatre, it becomes lighter. Less ego. Less pressure. Less evaluation.
Who was it that said "if you live in a 15 minute city but your barista has an hour-long commute you don't live in a city; you live in an amusement park"
You should name your sons as if they will be kings and you should name your daughters as if they will be named in the beautifully written prose of future fairytales.
Friend of mine was roommates with an Amish kid who defected during his Rumspringa
The guy was prone to fits of rage and his vocabulary was like 75 words max. Stuff like "We build supper now?"
He got way into meth and they had to kick him out