Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too.
not to offend anyone but at this age we should be more scared of being unskilled than single. partners come and go skills, career and self-worth are what keep you stable when life gets real.
Sometimes I see work ethic of people who grew up in third world countries and it's kind of insane when they're put in a first world job market + are smart with their money.
My uncle moved to England because his wife got a job in healthcare there, she didn't make much but he