Tu pareja será quien te ayude a navegar la pérdida de tus padres. Las crisis de la vida, y todos los futuros traumas, enfermedades y contratiempos. Elige a alguien amable, agradecido, amoroso, paciente y sobre todo, leal.
i don't think people really understand that there is no coming back from certain things. Some damage does not get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that's it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.
Most men think freedom means having no obligations. Real freedom is choosing obligations that build power rather than consume it. The wrong duty makes you dependent, resentful, and exhausted. The right duty creates competence, trust, meaning, and options. Responsibility is either a prison or an asset depending on what it compounds.
Humans demand fairness only when they’re losing. When advantage is on their side, they call it merit. When it shifts away, they call it injustice. Human nature bends morality around incentive; the wise study incentives first and ethics second.
You assume people will act fairly if you act fairly. They won’t. People act in alignment with their incentives, not your expectations. If the structure rewards selfishness, selfishness appears.
Gustavo Fring was right, if you have a problem that means it can be solved. If it cannot be solved then it is not a problem. It is a reality to be accepted.
The average man is too honest in places where he should be strategic, and too dishonest in places where he should be accountable. He reveals his plans to strangers, but lies to himself about his habits. Power begins when you reverse this. Be private with the world. Be mercilessly honest with yourself.
Never outshine people who have the authority to punish your brilliance. Talent without political sense becomes a threat, and threats get managed. Let insecure people feel taller while you build quietly. The goal is not to look superior in the moment. The goal is to keep rising.
I need people to understand that when millions of hardworking people are struggling at the same time, that is not millions of individual failures. That is a system.
The wildest part about POVERTY is how much time it steals. Waiting for buses. Calling assistance offices. Comparing grocery prices. Fighting insurance. Sitting at laundromats. Being poor is a second job nobody pays you for.