Sometimes as an adult you have to decide “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” & stand on it. Rather that be family, a relationship or a friendship.
it’s scary the way you can kill off the love you have for someone. you just continuously remind yourself of the reality of the situation. you internalize how unfairly you were treated (even unintentionally). you do the work & then one day, you feel nothing for them. not a thing.