Refusing to “give up” on a toxic relationship is still giving up. Read that again. It's just giving up on yourself. Your happiness. Your future. Your self esteem. Your chance at loving yourself and actually being loved by someone else who deserves you. It's still giving up.
I know you're intuitive and intelligent. But you're destroying your peace confronting everything you observe. Be an energy converter. Whatever comes your way, convert it into what you want it to be. That is the most powerful thing you can do right now while things are unfolding.
@ShewillbeWet Women want men who they perceive to be higher in status than them.
If a man seems disinterested or indifferent to what a woman has to offer, it signals an abundance of options.
Which further signals higher value.
Desperation is the killer of attraction.
@WealthInc247 listening.
the roots of the word communication - is "common".
Same root as community.
Can't find 'common' ground in a relationship if one does not listen...
... and with more than the ears...
@WealthInc247 Listening until the other person has finished their thoughts.
Not a pause, not a quiet look to the side, not taking some beverage to clear the throat.
When they finally ask you a question, answer the question, nothing else.
Then listen again.
@WealthInc247 Although life always has seasons of ebb and flow, we try to consistently plan date nights and over-communicate about everything. We talk about silly stuff, sad stuff, exciting stuff, etc...all of it.
It's a game changer in marriages to have great communication. It's a must!
@WealthInc247 Communication should be prompt and directed towards mutual benefits and understanding of both parties. It should never include demeaning words or voice tones. Lastly, it should always be thought of with good intention, not for confrontation purposes over any issue.
@WealthInc247 Understanding.
Understanding to whom you are talking to & knowing their background, their past will give you what they've been through and thus making you understand them more as who & what they are as a person.
Anybody can love, but very few have the ability to understand life.
@WealthInc247 It’s actually very simple. You should be authentic, communicate exactly what you’re thinking and listen to the other person. People run from communication because they’re not willing to listen.
@WealthInc247 All parties must always feel heard and listened to,this promote readiness and willingness to talk and to open up on issues to each other.
And ,dont judge
Dont debate
Dont argue and of course
Dont defend.
Just talk.
@WealthInc247 Objectivity, being honest and true in only ever attempting to relate your perception while simultaneously trying to understand the perception of the other person. It’s the ability to move out of our own interpretation of things that truly matters https://t.co/HksreL0rLv
@ML_Philosophy Both times I got married, it was like someone flipped a switch and suddenly it was ok for my partner to take me for granted and generally treat me like garbage because presumably I wasn't going anywhere.