You’re not lazy. You’re tired. You’ve been living in survivor mode for so long. Your mind is exhausted! You’re still processing trauma. Be kind to yourself please.
The contrast between defense attorney Reddington offering grace and compassion to a prosecution’s witness who couldn’t find her notes and the way prosecution treated their own witness: victim/father of the deceased children, is quite something
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Yammering on and on for two years about processed food and artificial food dyes while simultaneously approving new mRNA vaccines is f*cking infuriating.
why does no one talk about how hard it is to force yourself to walk away from someone you absolutely adore because no matter how badly you want them in your life, they just keep hurting you and leaving your emotional needs unmet. how confusing it is when the person who makes you so happy is also the same person that makes you so miserable
I stay to myself because people don’t really be genuine when it comes to you. They’ll be around you every day and still not really be for you. I done seen people switch over small stuff, move funny behind my back, then come around acting like everything normal. That’s why I don’t care to have a bunch of people around me. I’d rather stay to myself than keep finding out who was never solid.
Breakups hurt. You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to”make it work” with someone who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. THAT hurts.
You can't love an avoidant into becoming the partner you need. Losing you can feel easier to them than facing their patterns and taking accountability.
When a man leads himself well, his wife does not have to spend her feminine energy bracing for his instability.
His children do not have to learn maturity from chaos.
The home does not have to orbit his moods, excuses, and unfinished duties.
His presence becomes a form of order.
Not because he controls everyone, but because he has learned to govern himself first.
What biblical marriage is not:
- Men with other men
- Women with other women
- One man with multiple women
- Believers marrying unbelievers
What biblical marriage is:
- One Christian man and one Christian woman
If you are a woman and unhappy in your marriage.
Try being super submissive and feminine for a week or two, and you will make your marriage amazing.
Try it. Prove me wrong.
A lot of marriages didn't end because of abuse or betrayal. They ended because a bitter friend kept whispering, "you deserve better" into someone's ear long enough to destroy a family.