Miano

A husband,father to most amazing girl,prop @ Mwamba RFC and a farmer

[Miano @Miano_p]

@MasculinitySato 💯

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@MasculinitySato That's us!

[Eric @amerix]

A man without purpose becomes vulnerable to distractions.

A man with purpose becomes difficult to distract.

Purpose protects.

[Eric @amerix]

Raising children with discipline is not cruelty.

It is the highest form of love.

Raising children without structure leads to:

• Adults who can't tolerate discomfort or delayed gratification

• Entitlement that nobody will accommodate

• Anxiety - because a child without boundaries has no sense of safety

Hold the standard even when they resist it.

[Eric @amerix]

Every morning,

You meet men crawling from prison.

Their shirts look like they were pulled from a bottle.

Their pair of trousers are worn out,

Their faces are long and sad,

Their masculine energy is fading. They walk tired, gazing into an emptiness.

These are men stuck in houses where their wives terrorize them.

They sit in these houses because they are afraid to leave.

They built nothing that belongs to them. They own nothing. Just children who have been strategically weaponized against him.

When they retire from civil service or as teachers or as employees in Indian-owned companies, they resign themselves to fate, enduring insults and mistreatment from their domineering wives.

Their only hope is to sit at the bus terminus, betting and gambling, hoping to undo their years of financial losses.

But it gets worse, they suffer hypertension, diabetes and prostate enlargement.

They become a burden to their families, and they are abandoned in the corner of the house to nurse a chronic ailment.

Their years of sacrifice get swept away by comments from their children,

"Our father spent years drinking and entertaining hoodrats. It is our mother who took us to school."

Or their wives,

"When other men were building wealth, what were you doing? I can't continue living with you."

Yet, his productive years were spent on providing for the family without fail.

Pain and agony, as he counts his last breaths.

Then, one day, the sun will rise without him.

The main door of the house will open without his cough.

His chair at the corner will wait for his warmth, but it won't come.

His legacy gets buried deep with his regrets.

Forgotten.

In the ruins of his sunk-cost fallacy.

If you are a man reading this, start building your fallback architecture now.

Remember,

You can lie down for people to walk on you, and they will still complain that you aren't flat enough.

Your independence, in old age, is your wealth.

WAKE UP!

[Eric @amerix]

The blueprint is believing in yourself.

The cheat code is Discipline, Order and Consistency [DOC].

[Miano @Miano_p]

@MwambaRFC @Dignity_Kenya @Lasante_ltd Well done ladies

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@maximumpain333 So what next!?

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@MwambaRFC Well in ladies 👏

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