Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship healthy is that you understand that it is you and them versus the problem. Not you versus them.
Need more people to choose "kembali kasih" over "sama-sama" as a form of response. Yes, I return the warmth you gave me. Yes, I can feel the grace that you handed over to me. Yes, it flows in me like a gentle tide. Now allow me to reciprocate
In a relationship, there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. when you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.