speak the truth even if it will hurt someone. But don't disguise ur insensitivity as the truth. Respect everyone, no less, respect yourself all the same.
It's like gold, that talent you have buried, and the only way to find it is to dig deep. You will then be rich and free, once you find it and put it to good use.
Keep digging you never know how many gems you will find in you.
Can be everything and yet not everything. Can be everyone and yet chose to be the other one.
Wrong or right are two different paths. The choice is always right if you can adapt. You can be blindfolded and still see some light. It's always your choice to fight.
Your choices will define the kind of experiences you go through. And your experiences help you grow. Don't let the fear of making the wrong choice prevent you from growing.
If you DESIRE change, then you've already started by noticing the lack of SELF satisfaction. Don't change for a partner or for social standards. Change because YOU WANT TO.
Changing for others is TEMPORARY and WEAK, changing for you is PERMANENT and STRONG, it's rooted in you.
What one wants(current phase) is not affected by needs(daily), if and only if what they should be/their full potential(future) is known.
If lost try thinking about your:
1. Full potential
2. Wants
3. Needs
This order will minimize chances of building a future on current needs.
movin forward is not possible, going back is dreadful, giving up is not an option.
Dreams are fading hopes are falling.
The doors are closed, lies were told
A victim can't be victimized.
The pupil can't be utilized.
Living in a dysfunctional society & the mistake is always yours.
An interviewer said to me :
"I graduated from the best university there is in Canada, western. And my friend jarred graduated from a lesser university Waterloo and you come from an even lesser university Laurier"
He never learnt at "the best uni", how to be professional π€¦π»ββοΈ
Uncertainty is like waking up in the middle of the ocean wondering which way to sail. A thinker will calculate all possibilities and will move. An over-thinker will keep checking their calculations.
A balance of courage and care is required in times of uncertainty.
As a kid when I saw something scary in a movie I would close my eyes to avoid it manifesting in my subconscious. Until I realized the image my brain created was worse than reality. Now, whenever I see anything scary I open my eyes to see all the details for what they truly are.
I wake up daily to at least 5 job rejections. I applied to at least 200 jobs and got 1 interview so far. Im sure Im not the only 1 going through that so if you are too, just know it'll get better! Uncertainty is a bitch but be certain that you're always in control. stay strong!πͺ
Find your happiness and make it your own.
Say your good byes and never hold on.
For the world bets you not to succeed but to fail.
Owning your happiness protects you from pain.