@MadelaineLucyH This and the fact that rape that rape is such a violating, humiliating experience that sometimes it’s easier to pretend your loved one didn’t mean you any harm rather than admit what happened to you
@MadelaineLucyH I literally saw a man say “if she doesn’t have a broken rib it wasn’t rape” and I just can’t understand how someone can be that far removed from reality
@MadelaineLucyH@lilyally98 Or the male best friend who slipped something in your tea, so he could have his way with you but luckily someone came to the rescue. Or your bil who blatantly talks about your breast while everyone laughs like it’s okay. Oh the list is endless!
WE ARE TIRED OF THE GASLIGHTING!
@judgeshowgames@MadelaineLucyH That’s easier said than done. Sometimes, especially if a woman is a homemaker with kids to watch over, she isn’t in a situation to leave her husband. It’s hard to say no if one yes keeps you and your kids off the streets.
@MadelaineLucyH It took her 10 years to realize it was rape
It took me DECADES to say the word "molested", and now X-scrotes say I'm exaggerating or lying
But if any woman did to a male kid what my dad's friend did to me, while my father laughed at me as I cried, I know what they would call it
@EncryptedEarth@MadelaineLucyH Wow. That's wrong as wrong can be. If a man gets you drunk and you aren't coherent to say no or yes then it is in fact rape.
@EncryptedEarth@MadelaineLucyH The first alcohol I ever had was given to me at age 14 by a 23 year old man. I thought it was orange juice, but it had vodka in it. A few months later, my best friend's dad did the same thing. Two different men, in two different countries, totally unknown to each other. I was 14.
@EncryptedEarth@MadelaineLucyH So apparently you don't know this. If a person is intoxicated they are legally unable to consent to sex. If you have sex with them anyway then it's rape. It's considered the same as sex with an unconscious person who cannot consent. That you don't know that is concerning.
@EncryptedEarth@rkotheviper91@MadelaineLucyH If your close friend bought you a ton of drinks and then assaulted you when you were debilitated, would you really find yourself to be in the wrong? There was no reason not to drink them, right?
You’d thought they were your friend.
@EncryptedEarth@MadelaineLucyH No, it doesn’t, but being coerced into feeling safe enough to get drunk with someone, whose true intent is to assault you, does equal that. They know that alcohol will give them access, so they get the victim drunk.
@EncryptedEarth@xxlgc@MadelaineLucyH -Buying or serving someone multiple alcoholic drinks.
-Pressuring someone to keep drinking.
-Secretly adding alcohol to a person's drink without their knowledge.
-Giving alcohol to someone who doesn't realize how strong it is.
It's not always "the victim got drunk"
@mojoecool@MadelaineLucyH@mysteryatheist1 Withhold or deny consent? WTF do those words even mean… withheld consent is NOT consent. Denied consent is NOT consent… if a person “withholds”, “denies” or is unable to GIVE CONSENT it’s called RAPE. Making up “types” of consent doesn’t make you less of a predator or rapist.
@Joeyxshendo@Bostonian7019@MadelaineLucyH Are you a rape victim who has "moved on"?
If not: shut up. If it's as NBD as you seem to think, there will already be a chorus of survivors saying just that, and your voice will be redundant.
@Joeyxshendo@MadelaineLucyH Cheating on a partner is not a violation. Rap3 is violation. Do you think rap3 victims just need time to process their emotions & then everything will be ok?