If you feel disconnected from your partner in every relationship you're in and have the same fight over and over again...
It's time to heal your inner child:
95% of relationship issues are actually communication issues. Learning to directly express your needs, and to understand the needs of another is a massively underrated life skill.
Growing up with Emotionally Immature Parents (EIP) can create a situation where we don't feel safe in adult relationships.
Or we experience what's labeled as social anxiety.
HERE'S WHY (🧵):
Many people are self described "perfectionists."
Underneath perfectionism is insecurity. And a deep fear of allowing our flaws to be seen.
Perfectionism is an illusion to unlearn.
Here's how...
A THREAD 🧵:
And when you pray tonight…pray for the ability to do right by you. The source of true unhappiness, is not showing up for yourself. You do much for other people yet you are the last person on your mind. People doing you wrong is one thing, but you doing wrong to yourself is sad.
And when you pray tonight…pray for commitment. Be committed to all the things that enhance your well-being. When it comes to YOU..don’t go for shortcuts. Put in the work and become the best version of yourself.
Someone dmd her husband and said "you should be with someone that looks like me" how insane is that?! the way ppl don't think fat women don't deserve love especially from conventionally attractive ppl
I’m at a wig installation with imama and I’ll tell you what, she’s not chopping a single vegetable when we go to the Eastern Cape.
iNtombi yam yi cream.
My husband took our kids to the playground the other day and when they got home, he told me about an experience with my 5 year old that made me marvel at the purity and innocence of kids. It also made me think about not giving up when you want something. There is always a way.
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Now that I have 100K followers, I want to talk about #OvarianCancer. Specifically my gritty story. The goal is awareness. I hope you find this narrative informative.