@maintishe Not surprising when even with a list some married men require a video call confirmation to shop at a supermarket and some women find it cute enough to tweet and bond over it 🙃
One of the major lessons here has been how even the highly educated elite is using Arday's "downfall" as a Trojan horse. They are laundering their anti-Black prejudice under the guise of academic integrity.
The usual suspects leading this charge are using Arday as a battering ram against diversity initiatives. They have deliberately tied the legitimacy of all Black academia to one man's success, creating a dynamic where his isolated failings are now used as a systemic indictment of an entire community.
They are trying to gatekeep their racial-elite spaces by using the weapon that has worked for their ancestors before them.
How many White academics have done worse? How many have been used to indict the entire White academic community and question their place in universities? They are treated as just "a few bad apples".
They have, including all other privileges, the right to fail as individuals and individuals alone.
By all means investigate Arday, but when you start masking your racial resentment behind a sudden devotion to academic standards, that is just modern segregation acting exactly as it is intended.
@Mrs_Stealurman I’m just sick and tired! I saw the video and had to scroll so fast but it keeps popping up on my tl. A child regardless of what they’re wearing shouldn’t be sexualised.
"scientists don't want you know" is a phrase that always cracks me up because if you actually meet a scientist they will be shaking and crying like an overstimulated chihuahua with the need to let you know
Ladies note that in Nigeria, hotels are only used for sex and meeting up with anyone at a hotel means you’re a prostitute.
Also know that every man is a potential r@pist until proven otherwise, so never ever visit any man in their house or at a hotel
And if you should suggest meeting up at a restaurant, they will call you gold digger.
So where should you meet you may ask.
DON’T MEET ANY MAN AT ALL ANYWHERE BECAUSE NOWHERE IS SAFE WITH A MAN
Not church, not market, not mosque, not restaurant, not cinema, not even your own house.
Talk only on phone.
And another thing I'll say on this issue. The breadwinner wives are a lott more than we think. They'll pay rent, school fees, house upkeep, groceries, child care, meds, cook and clean. But majority are SILENT coz they protect their husband's ego and that's why we think it's just+
A male lecturer was arrested for sleeping with students for grades, failing them if they refuse to sleep with him. He is an Anglican Revd.
The students set a trap for him and he fell in it.
This reminds me of how rapists and pedophiles choose professions that puts them in proximity to their prey.
Also never trust religious men. I'm very sure he will be the kind to preach submission in churches.
This thing you guys do praising the areas you live in because they don’t flood is the same as when people thank God for sparing their lives after hearing that others have died in motor accidents.
Tone deaf behavior
Its such a heavy thing for your mother to die. To go home and not feel like home because your mother is not there and will never be there again. That sense of loss is so immense and deep it’s indescribable. It’s unquantifiable the amount of grief and horror that will exist in you
It was rejected following an outcry by churches etc. because they claimed it'd expose children to sexual immorality due it being comprehensive sexuality education which included the recognition of more than 2 genders and the use of condoms for STI prevention.
These be the same people who will say we should pray for the pastor for he’s human who fell to the temptations of Jezebel and then cast out the young woman from church because she’s a whore from Babylon
Beyond being a founding bird for this stupid take, it’s insane how she’s peddling the “report to higher authorities” garbage. In the real world, ADULT women in corporate can’t even trust HR with reports of assault. But teens grappling with fear and guilt should trust authorities?
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
There can never be consensual sex between a teacher and a student.
This should never be up for debate.
We live in a country where a teach will stand in a class and tell the students (JHS or SHS) that the females shouldn’t date their mate, and their husbands are in university or somewhere working and then tell the males that their wives are in KG 2
CONDITIONING ‼️‼️
A minor is a minor!
What they wear, how they behave or even the things they say does not change that FACT.
A child cannot legally or meaningfully consent to a sexual relationship with an adult.
Adults are responsible for maintaining boundaries with minors.
It’s sad that in 2026 we still have to explain this, but it’s also not surprising.