grief muted the colors in my personality and totally altered the way i exist in the world. it robbed me of the ability to feel joy in moments that should have absolutely been magical. it taints my interactions and even my ability to complete simple tasks. it’s that devastating.
@natallman “The Terrible” by Yrsa Daley-award , “In the Dream House” by @Carmenmariamach, “The Girl and the Goddess” by @nktgill , and Assata Shakur’s autobiography! (This is my favorite genre!)
TW: abuse
So you know how they say therapists will not engage in therapy with a couple if abuse is taking place because it doesn’t stop the abuse it just makes the abuser better at gaslighting?
Yeah, so about some white liberals and their “anti-racism” work…
@CassDonish The Girl and the Goddess by Nikita Gill, The Terrible by Yrsa Daley-Ward, In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado, Zami by Audre Lorde, and Assata Shakur’s autobiography! Some of my favorite novels that are told in poems or mixed poem and prose!
I’m not built for the idgaf war. I’m actually serving on the frontlines in the igaf war. I am full of love and open about feelings and in fact very chalant
@tokyoslumbers In response to me trying to communicate I don’t think this therapeutic relationship is working -“I think you’re too depressed for talk therapy to work. I think you would benefit from acupuncture.” Switched to another therapist more aligned with me & talk therapy is going great.
men who play devil's advocate in arguments where they have no stake in the topic and can remain calm while the other person gets emotional and then think they have won should be sent to space
men who play devil's advocate in arguments where they have no stake in the topic and can remain calm while the other person gets emotional and then think they have won should be sent to space
"Trauma Informed" does NOT mean "I have trauma, so I can relate."
"Trauma Informed" does NOT mean "I'll be 'extra nice' because people have trauma."
"Trauma Informed" indicates:
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If you were “mature for their age” you might have been parentified. Parentification is when a child is made to fill an adult role.
This is an “invisible” trauma that has life long impact.
HERE’S WHY: 🧵
The use of fear to control children is so ubiquitous that most adults don’t even realise they are doing it. They’d never describe what they are doing that way. But in so many different ways, the children feel it. Here’s what it looks like. 1/