Personally, I appreciate the “see finish” phase of a relationship. When the novelty wears off and you begin to see each other as actual people, that’s when intentionality matters most. I love the idea of becoming familiar with someone without becoming careless with them.
Once I hear people say a woman is difficult, my first picture is always a woman who understands boundaries, knows herself and carries herself accordingly, won’t be a doormat and stick to her standards. I will always choose being a difficult woman over being a foolish woman.
I really think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind !
Not even physically tired !
Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed !
That kind of tired is different😮💨!