First-gen student/ Ph.D. Candidate/ Softball and pickleball novice / Southeast Asian food, thrillers, arugula, and working for educational equity excite me.
“Perfectionism [is] the most toxic condition for the soul. The next most toxic is the ensuing and chronic contempt for oneself, the belief that one is secretly defective and less-than. The next is the obsession that one is right and better-than.” ~@ANNELAMOTT
"Simple can be harder than complex. You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end, because once you get there you can move mountains." —Steve Jobs
"You can't make positive choices for the rest of your life without an environment that makes those choices easy, natural, and enjoyable." Deepak Chopra
"This is the real secret to life—to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realize it is play." —Alan Watts
Balancing the fear of technological doom with the reality of [& hope for] change... very tough >_<
"In times of change, learners inherit the earth, while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists." —Eric Hoffer
"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you decided to look beyond the imperfections." —Unknown
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What ethic emerges if we follow Audre Lorde into a redefinition of "sister" that queer and expansive enough to face neoliberalism, generational divides, patriarchal secrets aka Caribbean Diaspora? Where do guilt and grace find each other? Oh right. Outside. Meet you there.